Owen Dyson Jones (Dyson). A Eulogy. (GW3DRV)
Dyson was my Uncle. It is in this context that I write.
He used to joke with us as children that his initials ‘O D J’ or ‘Odd J’ were apt, he’d tell us that he was the Odd Jones. He was many things but odd was not one.
Just shy of one Hundred years of experience, He was an Uncle, a Great Uncle and a Great-Great Uncle, last year we sat and shared a meal, four generations at the table. As I watched him with the youngest newest addition, it was like looking into the past and seeing from a new perspective how very wonderful he was with children. His humour and charm would shine as it did when I was younger, he had a way with words and often, sound effects, that had us all engaged and laughing with what he had to say. He was truly a Great Uncle, but so much more. He was also kind, and wise with a wit so quick. A storyteller, an educator, photographer, a Radio enthusiast, a friend to so many, and Father Christmas to Hundreds of children, he was an inspiration a Husband and of course a Father.
When I think of Dyson as I often do I would try to remember the way he’d tell a story, not just his words but also how he spoke, with such eloquence and confidence he’d share his stories and memories with us all. Everyone I know who met him would comment on how very beautiful a voice he had. How he’d share his memories or advice ‘The thing with it is’ he would add, and we were hooked.
I remember one time many years ago now, he had his wireless radio equipment in his garden shed, as I entered, he said “Hello Cariad, I’m just talking to my friend in Russia”. How incredible it was to hear that my uncle was talking to a friend in Russia, of all places, I’d only ever heard about Russia on the news. He must be a very important man indeed. As I looked around, I saw all these boxes with switches and devices, little screens with green wobbly lines, many of which he built himself. He was such a resourceful Intelligent man. It was a fantastic sight indeed. ‘Charlie’ might have had his chocolate factory, but I had Dyson. I remember he asked if id like to say hello, he handed me the headset and I spoke into the microphone, “Hello” I said. This Russian chap replied with a very Russian accent “Hello what’s your name” “Daran” I replied, “Hello Daran”, he told me his name, but it was unpronounceable to me “How are you today?” I suddenly became very shy, and Dyson spoke again and explained I was a bit shy. I remember going back in the house and having tea, in awe of my Uncle Dyson.
This reverence never left me and each time we met, I remained in Awe of this wonderful Man. After learning of his time as a Radio Operator in the Army, I knew what I wanted to do.
Sometimes we would go for a walk, it would take us a really long time to navigate the streets of Aberaeron or Lampeter, I remember he seemed to know so many people, and he always had time to stop and chat. Whenever he met anyone, he always left them feeling good about themselves, he had a way to brighten our days with just a few words, or perhaps a joke, or it might have been just the way he spoke. He would follow up by telling us that, “that person was Mr such and such, whose father was a Baker years ago with a wooden leg. He remembered every little detail.
I once showed him a photograph of a car, a very old car, in the photo was his Father, my Grandfather Dac, suddenly he’d regale us with a tale about Dac’s Brother who was serving in the Navy in China. Who would come home and buy a new car, then leave it here for his Brother Dac to drive.
We all miss him so much, none more so than his wonderful Daughter, My God-Mother, Pennie.
Pennie and her husband Conrad have been caring for him diligently for the past few years as his health began to deteriorate, but even so, when we’d meet, he would be chirpy and joke, always so self-deprecating, he always put others first. If he was able to see all of us at his funeral he would look around this room of Friends and family gathered and suggest it was far too much fuss, but he would also have loved the opportunity to tell us all a story, or explain how stuff worked. For us all there, we know he deserves every honour.
As he rests, this caring and tender Father, Uncle, Brother and Friend that he was, we should know that he has made his family proud. The world is most definitely a better place because of Dyson.
Dyson will be sorely missed. But greater than the sorrow from his death is the joy that he spread in his life. His wisdom and love will continue to guide each one of us throughout our lives. I loved my Uncle very much and will miss him dearly. His lifetime of hard work and dedication and self-deprecation serve as a monument to the exemplary man he was. His humility, integrity, and hard work continue to inspire those who knew him.
One of the best things that he has left behind for us is his example.
Daran Oswyn Jones